The Potency of Slowing Down

Slowing Down to savor the process – I had been a freight train. I forgot that it can be easy for me to get into a habit of pushing past my adversity – volunteering for two different organizations, doing healing work on myself and others, working full-time as an Office Manager. Job hunting.

My body just said, “enough is enough” and I got the flu. I really had to force myself off the train and stop. Rest. Drink tea. Watch TV. Every time I got too active, I’d feel the exhaustion coming on. So, I stopped again…rested, drank tea and watched TV.

Then I really slowed down. Oh! Opps! Yea I wasn’t taking care of myself.

I forget sometimes that achievement in the job hunt isn’t my primary focus. I forget sometimes that it is easy to get caught up in the fervor of “making more money” when money isn’t the primary focus. I want to see change so badly in this situation and for me to be working full-time in my new career field, I forget who my primary focus really is by getting stuck on a freight train called “out there.”

And then my body says stop. My soul says “slow down” and I get sick so I stop. Stop.

From there I remember again. Tune in. Recall that my primary focus isn’t impressing someone who doesn’t give a shit about me with how many blog posts I write for MIMA or the quality of my Marketing Plan for Irish Fair.

If they can’t get what I bring to the table by seeing my LinkedIn (or resume), knowing my work history and getting to know me, then I doubt they’ll ever be impressed enough by what I do, to hire me.

You get that right – it is the qualities that someone brings – their essential consciousness that is key. Not a pedigree of awesome agency names, awards they won at ad events when they were 32 or whether they moved widget A from point B to C, and repeated that for the last five years (yuck, boring).

What is the primary focus?

The primary focus is taking care of my mind, my body (which is my only vehicle for my soul to exist in right now) and myself, as a WHOLE. Knowing and trusting and surrendering to the process.

Being involved with MIMA and Irish Fair, has opened-up some valuable experience and allowed me to meet interesting folks from speakers at events, to agency execs to a community organization preserving Irish heritage.

A year ago, I didn’t have this website, I hadn’t met all the wonderful folks I’ve run into at events and conferences, some of whom have become friends and I was still decompressing from my intense school experience.

Slowing down, being in acceptance and savoring the process really gives me a renewed appreciation for my own divine spirit. The flaws, the good stuff. Everything. Let’s hope I can be mindful of that everyday – not just when I get sick.

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The Power of Transformational Work

While still not where I want, things started taking off this past week. Energy moved quickly while still processing a T3 (Three Dimensional Therapy) session I had on Sunday. My session concentrated specifically on relationship, however we discovered several incomplete circuits with family as well as an outside person who I know in real life, whom I had a past life with and stuff was unresolved.

All of these incomplete circuits impacted my ability to have a complete and healthy romantic relationship. I also think, given the ones with my father, it affected my ability to create money as he acted as a sort of source energy.

I became inspired to work on my website – adding a tab for my transformational work and an online booking element. In the future, I want to link the online booking to my payment system. This takes an additional investment though and my financial situation is still tenuous. For example, I have no money in my account again and don’t get paid until the 31st.

This struggle with finances and money is real for a lot of people. There are many, many templates and limiting beliefs we’ve agreed to take on. After several months of T3, I am just beginning to see what other people describe as being able to manifest a different reality. While vision boards and imagining are great, if we don’t get to the bottom of our limiting beliefs – some of which are complex and deeply embedded, we won’t find the basic LOA materials very effective.

In that vein, I always suggest that people do trauma work, limiting belief work and other healing modalities if they really want to see results. One of the healing modalities I am in the process of learning, “Transforming Blockages” – uses a pendulum to dig deeply into limiting beliefs, past life issues and societal templates and removes them. Like all healing, it is a process of discovery with many layers.

Coming from these events, I had a great lunch on Wednesday with a networking contact and spoke to someone else about doing some marketing planning/rebranding/PR work for them. Meanwhile, MIMA and the Irish Fair work continue full speed ahead, all while maintaining a full-time job at my current company.

Obviously, now I am exploring the idea of doing freelance work in both healing and marketing via my website. If you have thought about working with someone, I offer coaching and healing using the Akashic, Transforming Blockages – and another unique process I call Art & Storytelling. Check out the descriptions of the new offers in the Online Booking portal. Please contact me with questions.

One thing I noticed as I wrote about my struggles openly, was a reflection in some supporters that they would not go back to school or change their careers because it appeared like I was suffering and it was too hard. While that is their choice, I wouldn’t use these blogs and my story as a reason NOT to do something.

Manifesting new realities in the current situation we have is not always easy. Nevertheless, my story should be an indication of perseverance not a reason to give up or stay in complaisance in life. Change requires us to show up and fully embrace the nature of process. Process is transmutational – that will sometimes feel difficult or hard or that you can’t go on. Think a plant pushing through a seed casing or the nature of the crucible.

Take a few more steps, and see everything open up…

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